Enough is Enough

It’s not like I have had a ton of relationships because I haven’t been. But I am tired of falling for crushes and liking this guy and then that guy. I never wanted to date for the sake of dating but it’s like my eyes do.
I just don’t want to build a relationship, growing to know that person and having feelings for them when it isn’t going anywhere, and don’t tell me you like dating for the sake of dating.
Why would you want to spend time, money and energy with a guy you’re going to break up with? Not me, I am done with that, have been for awhile.
I only want to enter into a relationship that we are both interested in the possibility of getting married.

Today I went for a walk and I was talking with God and just thinking about what I will expect of my man (who ever it may be) when we enter into a dating/courting relationship, and it’s reasonable. And I will be open and real with the Man, Like this guy I have been talking with for the last little while. If he were to ask me to enter into a relationship with him, I would expect to talk about what his expectations are, and express what mine are. Even if he were to ask now what my expectations are in a dating relationship, I would tell him stright up and I would expect for him and any other guy to expect the same of me in any dating relationship.

Today’s girls we don’t do nothing to encourage the guys to step up and be Men. We just let guys be dogs and that’s not good, we need to raise the bar so they know we want a man.
But ya, for those of you guys who may read this, I totally know not all guys are dogs and there are those of you who are gentleman and are treating the girls you know like jewels. And I thank you for treating us like Gods jewels and treating us with respect.

But ya if you want me to give more detail then just ask.