Singleness

What is the first human crisis in the Bible?


Wrong. It was not the fall of man. What you say. Its true, In Genesis God Says “It is not good for the man to be alone.” Thus God made Woman.

We are created to be with someone.
We also need to be whole and complete in Christ to be able to be in a healthy relationship, and that being incomplete in Christ and trying to be in a relationship will only cause heartache.

Why is it that we aren’t able to know if we are complete in Him or not? Like say we are single and we know we aren’t complete in God shouldn’t that make it easier to be single???? I guess at times it is easy knowing that but why then is it so hard to be single when you see a lot of your friends starting to date and become engaged, and married???? Why is it then that all those feelings of “will it ever be my turn”, “will I ever get married” “am I good enough” and the list can go on, start to come up and cause us to start to feel down?

I just don’t know. It seems like when one friend starts to date a whole bunch of my friends start to date, and there I am alone… and single… and starting to feel down. I know that it’s not good, and I am working on it when these times arise. But I hate it, my hearts desire is to be married, but it just seems like its never going to happen, for reasons that I would like to keep to myself.

Am I alone in feeling like this? How can I even express this to my friends with out them saying: “your time will come”, or “God is still working on you”, “you need to be complete in God then your guy will come along” or all the other things they say.
I am in Ministry By Caring and we are talking about crying with those who cry and rejoice with those who rejoice. And not giving those stupid answers that only make us feel worse and stupid.
I just want to know that one day, my knight in shining armor will come and sweep me off my feet and be everything and more then what I look for.